Showing posts with label anniversary. Show all posts
Showing posts with label anniversary. Show all posts

Monday, July 5, 2010

Share & Share Alike

by Susan Sey

This is going to be a quick one because I'm in the process of adoring my new nephew, & it's time consuming. That new baby smell is mesmerizing. Hours could go by while I inspect his teeny weeny fingernails. He is coming home today so I confess right up front I will be busy. We have business, this child & I, so it's likely I will be scarce. Sorry.

But I did want to mention this odd bit of coincidence: Robbie was born July 2. My mother's birthday is July 1. My mother is from Ireland, and St. Patrick's Day is a big holiday for our family. My latest niece (the equally adorable Claire) arrived the day after St. Patrick's Day. My oldest child was born on my parents' 38th wedding anniversary, & my sister shares a wedding anniversary with my parents-in-law.

My birthday is August 29, the same day as Hurricane Katrina. Another of my sisters' birthdays is September 11. My father's birthday is the day after Christmas, a birthday he shares with the new baby's father, my brother-in-law.

This seems like a lot of coincidence. We're not an extraordinarily large family, so odds don't favor this kind of overlap. Are we just lucky? Or do all families have this kind of share & share alike mentality for important dates?

How about you? Are there any big dates & seasons of celebration in your family? What are they? Do you make a point of giving each person their own celebration, or do you go in for the One Big Party?

Sunday, May 17, 2009

Marriage

by Christie Kelley

On Tuesday, my husband and I will be celebrating our 25th anniversary. It’s quite an accomplishment these days. To celebrate we are going to lunch on Tuesday and then in July we are heading to Italy (just the two of us) for 10 days. I’m a little amazed that I’ve lived with this man for so long and still love him. That's us 25 years ago.

But as I started to think about my anniversary and marriage in detail, the romance writer in me came out. I know so few people who stay married to the same person for that length of time. And anymore, I know so few people who are getting married. When I write my happy endings, I expect my characters will get married. So far, the reader sees that in all my epilogues. Yet, I know more people who are either not married by choice, divorced, or on marriage number two (or three).

I read a statistic the other day that the number of unmarried women will soon surpass the number of married women. I was shocked when I read that. Are woman growing up cynical of marriage? Of my 11 nieces and nephews that are what I would consider marriageable age (over 23+) only one of them is about to be married next month.

Then I looked at my immediate family. My parents were married for 51 years before my father died. Of my eight brothers and sisters, four of them have already passed the 25th anniversary with their spouse. And four of them have divorced. So according to the statistics, my family is pretty normal (really, we’re all a little crazy).

It makes me wonder if this is part of the reason romance novels are so popular. Is it escapism that people can be happily married? We all know marriage is hard work. In romances, a lot of times it’s the courtship that is hard on both the hero and heroine. They have to earn that happy ending. So once they do, will their marriage be any easier? I hope so! I actually love to read a story that ends as the couple gets married. That way, I can imagine them having a perfectly wonderful life together without all the hard work that a real marriage goes through.

What do you all think? Tell me what you think about marriage. Do you think characters deserve an easy time of it after a tough courtship? Do you like to read about the characters getting married or is the “I love you” enough?



Monday, June 2, 2008

And even more winners!

Oops, I neglected to post the Week 4 winners before I posted the Grand Prize winners. Can you all tell I've been on deadline, am still on deadline for a different project, that I have approximately 3 brain cells left? :)

Prize 1:
Jeanne Adams -- A copy of Dark and Dangerous and chocolates from Jeanne Adams; a $10 Amazon gift card and Bandita journal from Caren Crane; and a Romance Bandits mouse pad from Joan Kayse

And the winner is...cheriej!

Prize 2:
A critique of a first chapter (not to exceed 30, double-spaced pages) courtesy of Jeanne Adams

And the winner is...terrio!

E-mail me at trishmilburn AT yahoo DOT com with your full name and address to claim your prizes.

Anniversary Month Grand Prize Winners!

We have completed our festivities-filled anniversary month, so that means it's time to award our final prizes of the month -- our fabulous grand prizes. The prizes and winners are:

Grand Prize #1
Anna Campbell -- Tim Tams, Anna Campbell stationery, signed copies of Claiming the Courtesan and Untouched from Anna Campbell; a signed copy of The Education of Mrs. Brimley and Romantic Times tote bag from Donna MacMeans; and a $15 Amazon gift certificate from Susan Seyfarth

The winner is...Jane!

Grand Prize #2
A critique of first chapter and synopsis courtesy of Anna Campbell; and an Anne Bonny action figure and $10 Borders gift card from Jo Lewis-Robertson

The winner is...MsHellion!

Please e-mail me your full names and mailing addresses at trishmilburn AT yahoo DOT com to claim your prizes.

Congrats to all of our winners throughout the month, and thanks so much for keeping things lively with all your comments. Keep them coming!

Sunday, May 25, 2008

This week's winners!

We're at the end of Week 3 of our month-long anniversary celebration, so you know what that means. Prizes!

Our first big prize consists of a $15 gift card to Borders and Godiva chocolates donated by Suzanne Welsh; a Romance Bandits bear donated by Anna Sugden; and signed copies of Double Dare and Does She Dare donated by Tawny Weber.

And the winner is...

Helen!

The weekly giveaway of a critique of a first chapter (not to exceed 30, double-spaced pages) courtesy of Trish Milburn (also includes a mug that says "Caution: Writer at Work") goes to...

authorness!

E-mail me at trishmilburn AT yahoo DOT com with your full names and mailing addresses, and we'll get your prizes to you.

Sunday, May 18, 2008

Week 2 winners!

It's time to reveal the winner's of all the goodies from Week 2 of our month-long anniversary celebration.

The winner of a Romance Bandits baseball cap and Sees Candy suckers from Kate Carlisle; a signed copy of Scandal's Daughter and a Dangerous Duke journal from Christine Wells; and a $10 Barnes & Noble gift card from KJ Howe is...

Pat Cochran!

The winner of the weekly giveaway of a critique of a first chapter (not to exceed 30, double-spaced pages) courtesy of KJ Howe is...

Gillian Layne!

Congratulations, ladies. E-mail me at trishmilburn AT yahoo DOT com with your mailing information and preferred e-mail addresses to claim your prizes.

Also, speaking of claiming prizes, I've still not heard from Sabrina and Margay, the winners of Week 1's prizes. Please e-mail me so we can get your prizes to you.

Sunday, May 11, 2008

Week 1 Winners!

We've come to the end of Week 1 of our month-long anniversary celebration, so you know what that means. That's right -- prize winners!

Drum roll please...



Prize 1 of a Bandita mug and T-shirt from Kirsten Scott; $10 Borders card and a pretty bookmark from Nancy Northcott; and a signed copy of Every Night I’m Yours from Christie Kelley goes to:

Sabrina

The weekly giveaway of a critique of a first chapter (not to exceed 30, double-spaced pages) courtesy of Christie Kelley goes to:

Margay

Congratulations, ladies! E-mail me at trishmilburn AT yahoo DOT com with your mailing address and preferred e-mail address for contact to claim your prizes.

Don't forget to keep the comments coming because we have even more prizes to give away. Up for grabs this week:

Kate Carlisle -- Romance Bandits baseball cap and Sees Candy suckers
Christine Wells -- signed copy of Scandal's Daughter and a Dangerous Duke journal
KJ Howe -- $10 Barnes & Noble gift card

Weekly giveaway of critique of first chapter (not to exceed 30, double-spaced pages) courtesy of KJ Howe

Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Happy Anniversary, Romance Bandits!

It’s hard to believe that we’ve been blogging here at the Romance Bandits for a year already. I guess it’s true what they say — time flies when you’re having fun! And since we Banditas love a party, we’re having a month-long celebration to mark our anniversary and to launch ourselves — and you, our wonderful and loyal readers — into our second year.

Each week, we’re going to have two drawings. One will be for a bevy of cool prizes like bookstore gift cards, yummy treats, Bandita merchandise, and signed books written by the Banditas. The second prize will be a critique offered by one of the Banditas. This is for the writers among our readers, so when you post this week please note if you’re a writer and want to be in the running for the critiques. These critiques will be of a first chapter, not to exceed 30 double-spaced pages. The winners will be able to tell the critiquer what she’s looking for — overall impressions, line editing, thorough and honest critique, etc.

We’re also going to have an extra giveaway on May 4, our anniversary date, and two grand prizes to be given away May 31. So, take a look at the prizes listed at the end of this post, and make plans to comment on the blog posts throughout the month. That’s how you place yourself in the running to win!

As if tons of prizes weren’t enough, in addition to the Banditas’ witty and insightful posts we’ve got another stellar lineup of guests this month. And we’re kicking off things with a bang tomorrow with Eloisa James! Yes, you heard that right. The New York Times best-selling author will be here in the Bandit lair to take your questions. Feel free to squee now, fangirls. 

Other fabulous guests this month are:

Esri Rose (and her hot elves), here to celebrate her debut novel, Bound to Love Her -- May 2
Claudia Dain, who’ll be hanging out to celebrate the release of her newest fabulous tale, The Courtesan’s Secret -- May 5
Inspirational author Missy Tippens -- May 6
Harlequin Presents author Annie West -- May 10
Brenda Novak – MIRA and Superromance author, not to mention the force behind her popular annual online auction to benefit diabetes research (Bid between May 1 and May 31 at http://www.brendanovak.com/) -- May 12
Cerridwen Press author Eilis Flynn – May 19
Silhouette Nocturne author Pamela Palmer – May 21
Historical author Terri Brisbin – May 22
Kimber Chin, debut author and marketing guru -- May 24
RITA winner Beth Pattillo, here to celebrate the release of The Sweetgum Knit Lit Society -- May 27

And, finally, on May 30 we’ll be having a launch party for our very own Jeanne Adams, whose debut novel, Dark and Dangerous, will be hitting bookstore shelves everywhere!

And now for the list of weekly prizes:

Week 1 (May 1-11)
Kirsten Scott -- Bandita mug and T-shirt
Nancy Northcott -- $10 Borders card, pretty bookmark
Christie Kelley -- signed copy of Every Night I’m Yours

Weekly giveaway of critique of first chapter (not to exceed 30, double-spaced pages) courtesy of Christie Kelley

May 4 – Special Extra Giveaway to Mark the Anniversary of our Official Launch into Cyberspace!
Loucinda McGary -- chocolates, skull-and-crossbones T-shirt
Cassondra Murray -- $10 Barnes & Noble gift card, Romance Bandits pin, Romance Bandits mug
Beth Andrews -- signed copy of Not Without Her Family, chocolate-covered sunflower seeds

Special first-chapter critique giveaway courtesy of Loucinda McGary

Week 2 (May 12-18)
Kate Carlisle -- Romance Bandits baseball cap and Sees Candy suckers
Christine Wells -- signed copy of Scandal's Daughter and a Dangerous Duke journal
KJ Howe -- $10 Barnes & Noble gift card

Weekly giveaway of critique of first chapter (not to exceed 30, double-spaced pages) courtesy of KJ Howe

Week 3 (May 19-25)
Trish Milburn – Mug that says "Caution. Writer at Work."
Suzanne Welsh -- $15 gift card to Borders, Godivas
Anna Sugden -- Romance Bandits bear
Tawny Weber -- signed copies of Double Dare and Does She Dare

Weekly giveaway of critique of first chapter (not to exceed 30, double-spaced pages) courtesy of Trish Milburn

Week 4 (May 26-31)
Jeanne Adams -- copy of Dark and Dangerous, chocolates
Caren Crane -- $10 Amazon gift card, Bandita journal
Joan Kayse -- Romance Bandits mouse pad

Weekly giveaway of critique of first chapter (not to exceed 30, double-spaced pages) courtesy of Jeanne Adams

Grand Prize #1 (to be given away May 31 at end of day)
Anna Campbell -- Tim Tams, Anna Campbell stationery, signed copies of Claiming the Courtesan and Untouched
Donna MacMeans -- signed copy of The Education of Mrs. Brimley, Romantic Times tote bag
Susan Seyfarth -- $15 Amazon gift certificate

Grand Prize #2 (to be given away May 31 at end of day)
Critique of first chapter and synopsis courtesy of Anna Campbell
Jo Lewis-Robertson -- Anne Bonny action figure and $10 Borders gift card

Good luck, everyone!