Trish's prize winner

The winner of the road map and Starbucks card from my launch party today is...

Dtchycat

Congrats. Please send me your name and mailing address by using the Contact link on my website, and I'll get your prize out to you.

And the Performance Prize goes to...

Thank you everyone for making my launch such a wildly fun party!!! I'm in awe of the fabulous talent (both on and off stage) you all brought to the celebration!!

And the Golden Rooster, quite tuckered out after his wildly fun day, pecked... I mean, picked his fave performance! HouseMouse88, who performed with our Kirsten to ABBA's Mama Mia (and I'm hoping she wore the boots!!). The rooster loved your rendition of Dancing Queen! HouseMouse, if you'll drop me an email at tawny@tawnyweber.com with your shipping info, I'll get COMING ON STRONG and GOING DOWN HARD right out to you ;-)

And again -thank you so much to EVERYONE!!!! You all rock *g*

Thanks for having Cheesy Valentines Poetry fun with us...

Wow. We had such clever and creative poems to celebrate Valentine's Day. The Bandits, one and all, thank you for joining us in the festivities and playing along in our cheesy game.

And the winners are - Dum da dum da dummmmm....

Janga: Signed copy of Risqué Business, Sees Chocolates - Tawny
Signed copy of The Wild Sight - Auntie Cindy

Nicki: Signed copy of Tempt the Devil - Foanna
Signed copy of Dark & Dangerous, Cover flat of Dark & Deadly - Jeanne

Barb: Signed copy of Firefighter in the Family - Trish
Signed copy of The Trouble with Moonlight – Donna

Pink Peony: $10 Borders gift card – Joan
Cool Bandits Goodies - Anna S.

Lisa: Godiva Chocolates - Suz

Treethyme: Signed copy of The Dangerous Duke - Christine

P226: Signed copy of Homicide in Hardcover, See's suckers
Bookmark - Kate

Pamela: Signed copy of Not Without Her Family - Beth

Cheryl (cas2ajs): Signed copy of her most recent book - Christie

Carol: Romance Bandits Fridge magnet and post-its – Jo

Sarabelle: $5 Barnes & Noble gift card – Cassandra

If the winners could drop me an email at Tawny@TawnyWeber.com with Bandits in the subject line, and give me their mailing info, we'll get your prizes right out to you.

Congratulations!!! And thank you to everyone who entered -what a fabulously fun day it was.

WINNER!!

by Suzanne Welsh
The winner of TOUCHED BY LOVE by our guest blogger Tracy Garrett is

LOUISA CORNELL!!

Congrats Louisa! Email me at swwelsh2001 AT yahoo DOT com with your snail mail addy and I'll see that Tracy mails you your copy!

Another winner!

Wow -talk about a rockin' week here in the Lair. The winner of any book from Karin Tabke's backlist is Amy S. ! Congratulations, Amy -drop me an email at Tawny@Tawnyweber.com with Karin in the subject line and let me know which book you'd like.

And even more winners!

Oops, I neglected to post the Week 4 winners before I posted the Grand Prize winners. Can you all tell I've been on deadline, am still on deadline for a different project, that I have approximately 3 brain cells left? :)

Prize 1:
Jeanne Adams -- A copy of Dark and Dangerous and chocolates from Jeanne Adams; a $10 Amazon gift card and Bandita journal from Caren Crane; and a Romance Bandits mouse pad from Joan Kayse

And the winner is...cheriej!

Prize 2:
A critique of a first chapter (not to exceed 30, double-spaced pages) courtesy of Jeanne Adams

And the winner is...terrio!

E-mail me at trishmilburn AT yahoo DOT com with your full name and address to claim your prizes.

Week 2 winners!

It's time to reveal the winner's of all the goodies from Week 2 of our month-long anniversary celebration.

The winner of a Romance Bandits baseball cap and Sees Candy suckers from Kate Carlisle; a signed copy of Scandal's Daughter and a Dangerous Duke journal from Christine Wells; and a $10 Barnes & Noble gift card from KJ Howe is...

Pat Cochran!

The winner of the weekly giveaway of a critique of a first chapter (not to exceed 30, double-spaced pages) courtesy of KJ Howe is...

Gillian Layne!

Congratulations, ladies. E-mail me at trishmilburn AT yahoo DOT com with your mailing information and preferred e-mail addresses to claim your prizes.

Also, speaking of claiming prizes, I've still not heard from Sabrina and Margay, the winners of Week 1's prizes. Please e-mail me so we can get your prizes to you.

Booty-lishus!!

We have a winner!! This is from my blog a full week ago on Saturday. (Yes, I'm late, sorry. The mind is slipping.) Anyway ... I blogged all about books, and the winner chosen at random of a $20 Amazon.com gift certificate is ...

KIM!!!

Kim, write me at katecarlisle99@yahoo.com, leave me your email address and I'll send you the certificate. It's simple as that!

Congratulations, Kim!!!

And the Winnah IS.....

Well, it's late but I DID pick winners for the nice little box of Godiva! YUM! Actually there are TWO winners....

(Drum Roll Please!)

CONGRATS to Brownone and Ellie! Please let me know your address so I can send you your well-deserved goodies! I'm at Jeanne AT JeanneAdams DOT com

Yeah!

And the Valentines Winner is...

da da dum da dum...

Eva S.

Eva - drop me an email at Tawny@TawnyWeber.com with RB Valentines in the subject line and I'll get your goodies right out to you! Congrats ;-)

And the Winnah Is...

The winner of the Christmas in NC giveaway is Kim W! Kim has won a $10 gift card to Borders and all she had to do was eat a pigeon egg - without chocolate! Kim, please send me your snail mail info at carencrane AT gmail DOT com. Congratulations! (And please don't go around popping pigeon eggs in your mouth - people will talk!)

Christmas, North Carolina Style

by Caren Crane

Here at the Lair, we like to talk about our home states and share a bit about what makes them special. During this (unusually warm) holiday season, I thought I would share some things unique to North Carolina during the holidays:


1. Christmas Town, USA - Since 1956, the small town of McAdenville, NC the citizens and businesses have decorated their town in celebration of Christmas. Thousands come to see the 375 decorated live evergreen trees and streets lined with decorated homes. Nothing will get you in the mood for Christmas faster!

2. Biltmore House - Biltmore House is a fairytale, family-owned chateau and estate in the Blue Ridge mountains near Asheville, NC. Completed in 1895 by George Vanderbilt, Biltmore is decorated in lavish style for the holidays each year. Candlelight tours are especially popular and showcase the beauty of the home in a spectacular fashion that you will never forget.

3. Old Salem - In direct contrast to the lavishness of Biltmore House is Old Salem, NC. Located in Salem, NC, Old Salem is a restored 1766 Moravian settlement, boasting 4 museums, 11 period gardens and a population of settlers in period costume going about their daily work. At Christmas, traditional wreaths hang from the doors, lampposts and fence posts are wrapped in their winter greenery, the smell of fresh baked treats emanating from the bakery warm even the coldest nose, and the sound of music drifts through the air to draw you into the holiday spirit. The candlelight tours are wonderful!


4. NC Fraser Firs - The NC Fraser fir has been judged the nation's best Christmas tree by the National Christmas Tree Association. The NC Christmas Tree industry is ranked second in the nation (behind Oregon) in number of trees harvested and first in the nation in terms of dollars made per tree. We have tons of retail lots and over 150 choose and cut Christmas tree farms in NC. Cut Christmas trees sold in the eastern United States probably grew in NC!

5. Aluminum Tree and Aesthetically Challenged Seasonal Ornament Museum and Research Center - Yes, friends, in Asheville, NC, there is the ATACSOM. Creator and curator Stephen Paul Jackson displays his ever-growing collection of metal Christmas trees, each covered with tacky ornaments. Decoration themes range from Elvis to a tribute to Jim and Tammy Faye Bakker. Our own Susan Seyfarth, self-professed tacky tinsel connoisseur, would love this museum. What more can be said, really?

Today is National Chocolate Covered Anything Day. Being my contrary self, I offer you a totally non-chocolate-covered recipe that happens to be a favorite among my family and friends. At least, I assume it's a favorite, since they keep asking me to make it and begging for the recipe!

CRANBERRY CHUTNEY
1 12-oz bag cranberries (sort out mushy ones and watch for stems)
1 c water
2 c sugar (or Splenda, which I use)
1 c orange juice
1 large apple, peeled, cored and chopped
1 c chopped pecans (I toast them before chopping)
1 c chopped celery
1 c raisins
1 tsp grated fresh ginger (I use more, probably 2 or 3 tsp)
1 tsp grated orange rind (again, I use more, probably 2 tsp)

Bring berries, water and syrup to a boil. (If using Splenda, only boil berries and water.) Reduce heat and simmer uncovered for 15 minutes. Remove from heat. (If using Splenda, stir in now and make sure it dissolves completely.) Combine all other ingredients in a large bowl or container. Pour berries over mixture and stir to combine. Refrigerate for at least 24 hours before serving. Keeps in refrigerator for 2 weeks.

So tell us, what's cool about Christmas where you live? And what is your favorite chocolate covered something? Has anyone actually eaten chocolate covered insects? Inquiring minds want to know! The coolest story will win a $10 Borders gift card, so do tell!

Winners of Caridad Pineiro's Bandita Booty!

by Anna Sugden

Caridad has drawn the lucky winners of her fab prizes!

Catslady won a copy of Moon Fever and Ellie won a Chica's t-shirt.

Congratulations!

Please email Caridad at cpsromance@att.net with your snail mail info and she will send your prizes.

Surprise Booty

by Kirsten Scott

Thanks so much everyone for sharing your lovely stories and surprises with me! It helped ease the pain of saying goodbye to my dear Susan...And for a winner, well, I loved all the stories, but I was so touched by flchen1's story of coming home to her first Christmas tree and warm pot pie. That story captured for me everything that the season is about! Flchen1, email me at: kirstenscott33 @ gmail. com and send me your address and I'll get that surprise in the mail!!

And The Winnah Is...

For the drawing in the Interview with Dianna Love Snell from November 9th:




1) For the autographed copy of Worth Every Risk......Helen!

2) For the certificate for Phantom In The Night, due June 2008, autographed by Sherrilyn Kenyon and Dianna Love Snell........P226!

3) For the five-page critique......Keira!

You can all email me your snail mail addy's, or contact me for info at cassondra_m AT mindspring DOT com. Of course, take out the spaces and replace the AT and DOT.

Thanks so much for making Dianna welcome in the lair, and for all of your great comments!

Nalini's Winner!

Didn't we have a great day with Nalini? She asked me to thank everyone who came on and commented. She's chosen a winner at random and it's our wonderful regular commenter HELEN! Yay! Helen, please email Nalini at nalinisinghwrites@gmail.com with your snail mail details and let her know which book from her backlist you'd like. You can find a list of her books at: Nalini's website. Congratulations! I'm sure you'll love your prize!

Latest Booty Winners!

by Jo Robertson

Thanks for the brilliant participation in the malapropism contest. It was rather like opening Pandora's box, but as they say, "fun was had by all." According to my husband, all the comments were superbly clever, but he finally narrowed the choices to one lucky winner of the Target gift card.

The Malapropism Maven of the Bandita Lair is (very loud drumroll) . . . our very own Bandita CAREN CRANE. I think the winning comment was about her "incontinent" husband!

Since Gerri Russell's website is on the fritz, I'll also announce another Booty winner. Cheri J., please contact Gerri at ggrussell@juno.com to claim your prize!

And the winnahs are . . .

Here are winners from some recent giveaways:

In the drawing for Gerri Russell's books: A copy of The Warrior Trainer goes to Keira Soleore, and a copy of Warrior's Bride goes to Cherie J.

To claim your prizes, e-mail your snail mail addy to Gerri: gerri AT gerrirussell DOT net.

In the drawing for a $10 Borders gift card from Nikki Nelson-Hicks's paranormal blog, the winner is Dianna! To claim your prize, please e-mail your snail mail addy to Caren: carencrane AT gmail DOT com.

Congratulations, ladies, and thanks to all our visitors and commenters!

Nikki Nelson-Hicks: Where the Haunted Things Are

interviewed by Caren Crane

Today, we welcome to the Bandit Lair a true Ghost Hunter and seeker of things that go bump in the night. Nikki Nelson-Hicks has pursued knowledge of all things paranormal since she was a child. Nikki is also a writer of short stories with a sometimes slight and sometimes quite lethal paranormal bent. With Halloween just around the corner and the paranormal romance market hot, Hot, HOT, we wanted to take a closer look into this extraordinary field of investigation and see what makes a Ghost Hunter tick. Welcome to Romance Bandits, Nikki!

Can you tell us when and why you became fascinated with all things paranormal?

When I am asked that question, I am always struck with the idea of why wouldn’t anyone be interested? I don’t care how technologically advanced humans become, we will always, at our core, be afraid of the shadows, what is lurking inside them and wondering if it wants to eat us.

I have always been into the dark and weird. [Okay, I knew Nikki in elementary school and this is totally true!]When other kids were reading Nancy Drew stories, I was watching Creature Feature. Other girls wanted to grow up and marry Donny Osmond while I wanted to go off on adventures with Carl Kolchack (and if you don’t know who he is, drop your pen right now and forget ever writing horror).

I remember when I was in first grade and I tried to check out a book on bats. The librarian wouldn’t let me because she thought it was too advanced for me; it was a third grade book. When I read a few pages out loud, she told my teacher and then, bam, I was shuttled off to some special class for gifted kids. Little did they know that the only reason I wanted the book was because I thought bats were vampires in disguise. I was very disappointed to learn they weren’t.

What convinced you to take your curiosity and interest and make it a hobby?

I kept my hobby in the closet for many years. I would read about a haunted house, say for instance, the Whaley House in San Diego and I would go out, alone, to check it out. Nothing very in depth or with any gear or anything. Just me, walking around and hoping to get a glimpse of something extraordinary.

When I lived in Budapest, I had to check out all the vampire history. Elizabeth Bathory’s family was very powerful there. They have an entire square named for them, Bathory Ter. The ruins of her castle are still there and are supposedly haunted. And, of course, Dracula left his mark. He was married in St. Matthias church in the Var and had been held as a royal prisoner in Solomon’s Tower in Visigrad.

There was one house that was occupied by a State Dept employee that had stories of a ghost. Supposedly, the recent occupants had seen a Hungarian guard in full dress uniform on the staircase. Marines from the barracks also claimed to have seen the guard. I was invited to a tea one Sunday and I snuck away and took photographs hoping to catch something. I had to keep it all hush hush.

When I lived in Muscat, Oman, I was a little more forthright about my interests. There was a place near the Marine house that was reputed to be so haunted that no one could live there. Because the belief in ghosts was not allowed in Islam, they claimed it was djinns. I had to take a look so I had one of the Marines take me over. The courtyard gate was locked so we couldn’t venture in but I can tell you, there was a very bad vibe coming from that place. Bad mojo.

I had a great time in Oman researching their pagan past. In the outer regions, where villagers left candies to appease spirits in caves, belief in the old ways was still evident. I would go hunting in the souqs for old talismans called somts and rings used in exorcisms called Zar rings.

It wasn’t until I came back to Tennessee in 2004, that I became involved with a group actively. Adasagona Paranormal Society (APS) was founded in 1998. There is some confidence that comes with numbers but, frankly, I still do most of my investigations and research alone.

Have your investigations convinced you that ghosts do or do not exist?

Of course, with age, I’ve lost many of my romantic ideals and became the crabby, cynical Scully I am today. I go into every investigation looking for the rational before I begin considering the paranormal. I am a firm believer in the Aristotle idea: it is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain an idea without accepting it.

What is the coolest investigation you've ever been on?

Two summers ago, the APS was invited to do an investigation at the J.B. Moore house in Villisca, Iowa.

A little backstory: in 1912, 8 people (two adults, 6 children), were slaughtered with a household axe. The killer (or killers) was never found. There are tons of websites on it, if you’re interested.

The whole crew caravanned from Nashville late Friday evening and arrived in Iowa late Saturday afternoon. Our refuge for the night was a house with no electricity and no running water. Oh, yes. No bathrooms. That, my friends, was in itself an adventure in public peeing. Throughout the night, we would all go across the street and take care of business behind a shack. It wasn’t until the next morning we found out that the shack was in the back yard of a senior citizen’s rest home.

When we first entered the house, I didn’t feel anything out of the ordinary. When I went upstairs to the supposedly haunted store room where they suspect the killers might have hid, I still didn’t feel anything. But when I went into the children’s bedroom, man, it hit you in the solar plexus. Just deep, deep sadness and fear. And anger. It was there that I saw (intuitively) an angry little boy who kept saying, “my head hurts” and “it isn’t fair.” I had brought with me some teddy bears to give to the children. I put them on the beds and then I did a blessing on the house. After that, the atmosphere lifted.

Unfortunately, we didn’t get any empirical evidence: no photos, video or EVPs. I got the blame for doing the blessing so early on. Even our team sensitive said the house was completely quiet. Many other teams have gotten lots of interesting EVPs and videos.

I was actually more afraid of the townsfolk than I was of the spirits. They were courteous until they found out what we were doing there. Afterwards, they were very cold and downright nasty.

What is the "most haunted" site you have ever visited?

We were called in by a woman who was afraid she had a demon in her house. Erk. When I hear “demon”, it makes my hackles go up. She lived in a mobile home out in the boonies. I really put my GPS to the test to find this place.

Her chief complaint was that electrical appliances in the house were malfunctioning: TVs, DVD player, PS2 and even the generator on her hot tub outside went on the fritz. Light bulbs were popping. In spite of all that, what really scared her was this feeling of hostility in the house. She and her family and friends were complaining that her house, normally a social gathering place, felt “uncomfortable”.

We got to the house and did a quick walk thru before interviewing her. You didn’t need to be shown the heart of the problem. It screamed out to you. The back bedroom. Nasty place.

During the interview, we learned that, six months earlier, she had taken in a teenage boy she knew from church who had been sexually assaulted by his step mother. On top of that, his father had sexually abused his stepsister, the daughter of the woman he had married. Sort of a backwoods criss-cross.

The boy was doing well until she took him back to his home to get some personal belongings. After that, the boy’s behavior began to change. He became surly and disrespectful. He started sneaking into her teenage daughter’s room during the night. After that, she had the boy’s grandmother come and take him away.

We didn’t even need to ask which bedroom had been the boy’s.

Our team sensitive said she could feel the presence of something but that she couldn’t sense anything sentient. It was just a boiling of dark emotions, rolling around and around.

Turns out, what we had there wasn’t so much a spirit or demon but a case of a very sad, angry teenage boy who had projected his emotions into something tangible. Well, as tangible as a residual energy imprint can be. It’s very common in poltergeist cases.

We did a blessing and a cleansing and told her that the energy would dissipate on its own as long.

Interestingly, we had a call from a couple three weeks ago that was having poltergeist problems. They were terrified. But during the interview we found out they were in the middle of a very contentious divorce. Ah-ha. We explained the idea of emotional residue and that the only one haunting that house was themselves. The husband moved out and the problems stopped.

Does your family share your interest in the paranormal?

Both of my kids are deeply agnostic and find most things spiritual highly suspect. However, they are also writers and find that most of this stuff is great story fodder.

My husband doesn’t really care one way or the other. His main worry is the fringe that I often come in contact with. When your hobby takes one into dark places, you meet some real weirdos.

As me about the Email Chick sometime. Whooo, boy.

I think most of us--I know I--would be way too chicken to do the sort of investigation you do. Are you ever afraid? What do you think it is in you that makes you hunt for the things most people don't want to see?

The Masonic Lodge in Franklin, TN is the oldest lodge in the state. Andrew Jackson screwed over some Indians right there on the front steps. There is Civil War graffiti in the bathroom. And the third floor is haunted.

Only members of a certain degree are allowed to go to the third floor. Luckily, my husband, a 32 degree Knights Templar, is but, unfortunately, I am still a woman and no matter how highly elevated I am, I cannot go to the third floor. Well, as far as the Lodge is concerned. Ha. During a tour, Brian snuck me up to the third floor. He watched the staircase while I prowled around. I found the door that led to the main meeting room and opened it. Instantly, I felt a sickening pull at my solar plexus, my breath was taken away and I felt pushed out of the doorway. Whatever was in that room, did not want me, a woman of all things, coming in there.

That was probably the most uneasy I have ever felt. Mostly, I’m too curious to be afraid.

So, what is different about my makeup that keeps me doing this sort of stuff instead of taking up some respectable hobby? I honestly don’t know. There are many days I think to myself that I am a blind man, in a dark room, looking for a black cat that probably isn’t even there.

And then I’ll hear a rapping on my wall. It’s been doing that ever since I brought that wood back from Gettysburg. And the hunt is back on.

How do you feel about Halloween?

As a holiday, I love it. It’s great macabre fun.

But, man, it brings the whackos out of the woodworks. I have a standard response when I am asked by anyone “Where is the best place to go to see ghosts?” I tell them, “Blockbuster. Rent a movie.”

While it’s nice that the idea of paranormal research has some popularity right now, the pendulum has swung to the far side and there are lots of Scoobies out there, mucking about in graveyards, with EMF meters and digital cameras. It’s a real pain in the butt for people who are doing analytical investigations.


So, Banditas, are you brave enough to be a ghost hunter? Are you fascinated with the paranormal? Do you have a paranormal idea and need some detail to make it ring true? I'm sure our readers and writers have many questions to ask of our paranormal expert, so fire away! We are giving away a $10 Borders gift card to a lucky commentor. We will, naturally, select a winner at midnight. [cue creepy music and add a "bwahaha" *g*]

Thank you, Nikki, for being with us today and sharing your expertise. Banditas, you can catch up with Nikki at her blog Nik Cubed. Happy ghost hunting!

And the winner is...

The winner of Anna DeStefano's Because of a Boy is...Buffie! E-mail me at trishmilburn AT yahoo DOT com with your mailing address, and I'll send it right out. Congratulations, Buffie!